What is the REAL Membership?
For those who want to submerge themselves in an exploration of reality…we’ll help you create your own path to deepen your understanding of your true self.
As soon as you sign up, you will have access to the current live course and in addition, you’ll be given one REAL Credit. Take a look at all of the courses on offer – each course requires one Credit and as you finish each course, you’ll be given a new Credit to spend on whichever one you’d like to do next. You will have access to all the live courses for the duration of your membership.
Most courses take around 4-6 weeks to complete. Once unlocked, each course is yours to re-visit whenever you like as long as you’re a member.
From here, every aspect of life can reveal who we really are.
The membership covers topics from apparent limitations of money, creativity and earnings, through to how, when stress is understood, it is the gateway to freedom, health, creative exansion and possibility.
Imagine each day no longer being a battle. The 3am thinking, the internal dialogue of anxiety, the constant doubting of yourself. Gone.
Imagine approaching each day with new eyes, a clear mind and an understanding that allows you to see yourself for what you truly are?
The membership gives you the opportunity to work through the courses one at a time so that you are not overwhelmed - to absorb the material and revisit it time and time again if you need or want to.
Each time we look at the same thing, there is the chance to see something new, or something different.
There are ten recorded conversations available on each live course on a first come / first served basis. They are a recorded one to one conversation which is shared with the other members of the course. They can be about any topic that is relevant to the subject of the course.
A Message from Clare
2023 Live Programme
A subliminal to reach into the sub-conscious mind, resonating with the deeply known truth of being and creating greater capacity for expansion and information, preparing the ground for the December exercise.
Participants will receive this at the start of the month with instructions for how to use it throughout the month, along with a journaling/observation exercise.
December [Click here for details]
Included in the membership...
You get a credit to 'spend' on whatever course speaks to you, and when you finish that course you get a new credit to use on the next course.
The ultimate exploration into 'practical spirituality'.
Getting real with transformation, influence and integrity.
Getting real with purpose, learning and unique expression.
Getting real with honesty, intelligence and creation.
Look at who and what you actually are through ten topics.
Getting real with challenge.
Getting real with time, energy, money and connection.
Getting Real with mental and physical health.
Getting real with fear, anxiety, phobis and stress.
Engaging with what is real
Getting real with genuine relaxation and effortless effort.
A 5 day mini course
A webinar for current or future coaches, teachers, employers and parents.
Getting real with other people.
A universal subliminal recording.
Getting real with learning and fun
A 2 hour workshop for writers and those who would like to write more.
Getting real with desire, passion and fulfilment
In this, we looked at different mental health and spiritual approaches eg. non-duality, 3Ps, psychology, CBT, NLP, hypnosis, psycho-therapy, body work, meditation etc to see the role they play (or the obstacle they represent) in aligning experience with reality.
[30 Day Course]
The key to mental and physical health.
A two hour workshop looking at freedom and food. How do our eating patterns support the flourishing of the physical?
[31 Day Course]
How relationships can become the genuine source of love, freedom, support and belonging.
[Subliminal - click here for details]
A deep relaxation audio recording for before bed and if we wake up in the night.
2 hour webinar: Discovering the true purpose of life. [Click here for details]
2024 Live Programme
The Year of Magical Reality
In 2024 we are going to look at all the resources that are depleted or inaccessible in a misunderstanding of what we are and which are released and revealed as the mind and body settle into truth.
ENERGY - 30 day live programme
A Subliminal looking at Energy
TIME - 30 day live programme
A Subliminal to unveil the presence of being.
ATTENTION - 30 day live programme
A subliminal to shift attention away from imagination believed to the reality of sensation
COMPASSION - 30 day live programme
A subliminal for deep understanding of self and other
CAPACITY - 30 day live programme
A subliminal to expand capacity for the gifts of unwanted emotions and experiences
WILL AND INTENTION - 30 day live programme
A subliminal to align will and intention to the truth
HOW CREDITS WORK
HOW CREDITS WORK
When you join the REAL membership, we know that every person has their own unique journey through this understanding to navigate.
When you join the REAL membership, we know that every person has their own unique journey through this understanding to navigate.
So rather than me telling you which course to take next inside the members portal, let your own wisdom be your guide.
When you join, you’ll be automatically given a REAL membership Credit. You can then navigate to your dashboard and select the course you’d like to do. In addition to your chosen course, you will automatically get access to the live courses.
Once you’ve chosen, simply ‘buy’ that course with your credit and you’ll get started with the first video on the following Monday.
A couple of hours after you complete that course, you’ll be sent an email letting you know you have a new Credit and to choose your next course.
Your Credit sits in your account for as long as you’re a member of REAL.
Want to take a couple of weeks off? No problem, just ‘spend’ it when you want to re-engage again.
Once you’ve unlocked that course, you’ll have access to all the materials contained in it for as long as you’re a member of REAL so you can revisit it whenever you like.
The idea is that you build up a library of valuable resources – and after fresh insights, it can be great fun to go back over a course you’ve previously done and see how it all looks different now!
Courses that just keep giving!
1. As the REAL community is ever expanding, we simply don’t have the resources to swap people from course to course. There’s a huge amount of tech and automatations that run in the background so that the program can work in this way and trying to ‘un-do’ them causes us a huge a amount of work!
2. Something made you pick that particular course in the first place. Trust THAT rather than your doubtful second-guessing personal thinking that thinks you might have chosen the wrong one. You haven’t. And when you complete the course, you’ll get to find out why you picked it!
“I loved this course- it helped me to see that it is NEVER anyone else and in fact, it is never 'me' that causes pain- it's the old, outdated structure of me/them.... just knowing that has shifted everything.”
“Hi Clare, I don’t have a question, but just finished Home and felt moved to let you know what a difference you’ve made in my life. I follow your podcast and watch your videos as well as read your books. I’m so happy to have discovered your work. Just wanted to send love and express gratitude for all you do!”
“I don’t fully understand what has happened but life looks so different now and I have no doubt that the trajectory of my life is going to change as a result of this intense 2 months on the Home course. I will keep you in the loop as more is revealed.
When I came across The Three Principles, I knew that it is what I had been searching for, yet for some reason I was not able tot stop looking for ‘something more’ that I couldn’t explain but knew I needed to find.
I have spent the past 7/8 years looking into and at all sorts of weird and wonderful things, and finally I feel I don’t need to look any further.
Now it is time to move on from searching for more, to seeing more.
I am very excited and looking forward to being able to relax more into life and be in it rather than trying to understand it.
You are such a gentle loving taskmaster pushing us to see the truth no matter how much we resist it. Thank you so very much for your dedication to the Truth and for all you gave to this course.
With all my love”
"Thank you so much Clare ...I can not even tell you in words how much joy my mind brings to me now...when you speak it shows me where things need to be and I watch as my mind is working things out and watching - this is beautiful And has shown me what my mind was born for...I will be once again forever grateful 🥲"”
“Clare is the only coach I have come across who specifically breaks down non-dual teachings into a practical format for day to day problems and life. Her description of trauma based belief and its impact is revelatory. Her understanding, too, of the wheel of re-traumatisation, often through generations, continuing to drive behaviours/avoidances, etc is so, so helpful.
Clare's compassion is pervasive and when she reveals that these wheels are based on accepted belief only, the magic of self acceptance, with nothing to fix and no-one to change or control (as they can only ever be seen through the conditioning we have acquired) can begin to take hold and true nature can be glimpsed. This is a teacher with her finger on the pulse of what is true- for us all ”
“This course was wonderful! They all are, but this seemed to be so practical, so resonate, so true. The logic of the body/mind pursuit of peace and love and security by circles that ultimately maintain that which it is using to fix is impeccable and undeniable. "My" own crazy seeming behavior made sense! Shame of the behavior could suddenly be looked at with compassion and love and seen beyond to try something new. Tears are welling up as I write this. Life-changing course!
In this course, the presentation on shame sunk deeply into the marrow of my being and a huge weight melted. I saw/felt/knew the logic of if I'm not the doer. If it's not by my choice that these words are said, actions taken, how can I be at fault? As I let myself off the hook, without the weight of the shame and blame, I realized at a deeper level the no doer, no me. It's like when the shame melted it took with it the identification with the separation self and its apparent actions. I saw the body/mind conditioning in action, and that the true responsibility lay there. So freeing. So good!
As to practical matters, I really love the short videos that come every 3 days. The timing is just right as it gives me time to absorb the content before the next one arrives. The content of these are stellar. They build one on another. Clare's delivery -- what can I say? So human and kind and fiercely logical. I just love when Clare laughs with us at our human foibles and how she gets so enthusiastic proclaiming each course her favorite! I love that we're all expanding/healing/awakening together. I want to cheer, too, for the webinars, the conversations, the podcasts, the community. It's all so good.”
Our monthly £97 membership is inclusive of VAT
“I joined the REAL membership just a few months ago, knowing that there was a calling, a drawing to look differently at life. To go a little deeper. To go in with more compassion to integrate all parts of the timeline of life rather than pushing it away. To continue bearing witness to the unraveling and falling away of the stories and conditioning that had been deeply believed about life and about myself.
Within the two live courses I have participated in and the two I have done on my own, I have been drawn out. Drawn out of conclusions and expectations. Drawn out of a closed corner of my personal mind, into a spacious field of openness, curiosity, and playfulness. Drawn to love, drawn to parenting and loving the wounded child on the timeline of life, invited to be curious, to look lovingly in the eyes of myself, asked to consider, and be open.
Clare has an innate way of bringing people through a back door of life to look square in the eyes of ourselves and the history we think we created. She embodies both a mothering presence and a fathering presence. A holding of all things, a spaciousness, authentic compassion, along with a simple, kind way of calling everyone to “giddy-up!” A clear way of communicating the reality of the both-and. The duality of life + the non-duality. The form + the formless. The human + the divine. She offers a firm and quiet yes to the both-and. Which creates a space for feeling held and seen and heard and accepted "as is."
Within that, transformation and change have happened. Ideas and stories have been unlearned, and curiosity about what I truly am has brought me back to home base. To the origin of experience. Here. Within me. Within this totally unique combination and chemistry of me. That cannot ever be compared to anyone or anything else. Or to another "me" on the timeline of life.
REAL membership offers community and communion, communication, and compassion. REAL membership offers a real look and deep conversations into what this reality is truly all about. ”
“Clare’s live programs are excellent – and amazing value!
Based on a topic, they have enough structure to give them focus, and enough flexibility that they aren’t held tightly to that. A richness of learning comes from this.
Clare also uses fresh content every month so it’s never a stale conversation from a previous time, and she responds to the questions and needs coming up in the group.
Incredible to have such a tailored service for a group programme. ”
“The realization that knowing my true nature may not change a thing in my external experience was huge. Suddenly all the intense spinning of needing things to be healed or better could also ease…or not because ultimately that’s an external experience too.
Strangely there is relief in knowing that the health struggles and difficult feelings could last my entire life, becuase suddenly the burden of needing to know how to fix my ‘brokeness’ can leave. I am really seeing that I am just life living. It’s pretty wild.
Thank you for your work and sharing what you’ve learned”
“The REAL Membership has been a huge blessing for me over the past year. I have gained so much more awareness of my own conditioning and how my perception of myself and others is created.
Membership of REAL offered the opportunity to see anew what I thought I needed to 'get there' through webinars, short videos and time for 1-1 questions, to what is real, what is essentially the truth of who we are.
The value on offer with current and previous courses is more than enough for a deep dive into what you think you think about yourself and others. Clare offers all this with the most loving, gentle kindness whilst holding us to truth all at the same time.
Thank you Clare, with love”
Hello my name is Clare.
For a long time, I wasn’t at ease with who I thought I was.
I worried that people would think I was stupid.
I worried about getting things wrong.
I held myself back in case I would mess things up. I felt stressed, ill at ease, apprehensive.
I didn’t like myself or how I was in the world.
I spent many many years reading, studying, attending courses, talking to people to try to find a way to feel better about myself and along the way earned many qualifications
(BA Psych, MBA, NLP trainer, yoga teacher, master hypnotist…).
Then I came across an understanding that made it clear we are never what we think we are and the world is never what we believe it to be. That our true nature is lies in the pure aliveness of being and in the simple awareness of whatever arises.
This realisation was pure freedom. There was nothing to fix. Not with myself and not with the world. As this is realised, the stories fall away to reveal the pure intelligence of our being meeting reality.
As freedom and peace, there is a simple, easy and sane immersion in life.
Each of us is already what we are searching for. It is that simple.
Answers to some of the most common questions
How long do I have to stay in the membership?
Is there a requirement to join the Facebook group?
No, but it is such a loving and vibrant community, that I suggest you give it a try :)
Does this come with support from Clare?
Are live courses included?
YES! They are free for full members. Anyone who is not a member can buy them at the advertised price.
I've completed some of these courses, can I have a different arrangement?
The beauty of the membership is that new content will be added – so even if you have done some of the courses before, you can complete the other courses and then move onto the different content as it’s added.
The membership gives access to a wide range of courses and is cheaper than paying for single private study courses going forward.
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